Well it’s that time of year when we all get together eat like we are not ever going to get sick. Watch football and drink the best wine we have. Oh yeah and remember the things we are thankful for. The wife and I were talking the other day and we have decided this is our favorite holiday because it has not commercially been ruined. Yes the turkeys go on sale and the whole black Friday thing but other than that it is still about being thankful for what we have.
As I start my list this year the first thing I am thankful for is my lovely wife. She has been my strength and power for the last 3 or 4 months. There has been a lot of change in our lives and she hasn't even flinched and I know inside sometimes she has. But I have never seen her sweat. A blessing beyond all recognition she has been to me.
I am also thankful for my new home. My new friends we have made and the new life we have begun. We have met some of the nicest people here and they are all becoming my new found family.
I am thankful that my son. He seems to have finally found someone who he trusts and loves. He has started working and shows tell tell signs of becoming the man I knew was inside of him. I feel like now I was the reason it hasn't reared its head until now. But he seems to be coming along just fine without me there to rescue him from every hang nail he has. I am proud of his growth.
However, there is a touch of sadness among all of the thankfulness. You see this is the first holiday I will not be a part of the Memphis family Thanksgiving in about 12 years. I will not be there cooking and messing with my adopted sister and enjoying with my Memphis family. They will all gather tonight and sit and enjoy great food, great wine and great company. I will truly miss each and every one of them. I hope they all know I will be thinking of them today and still thankful they are a part of my life even from a great distant. I am blessed to have two of them here with us for the holiday. So that will dampen the blow a great deal. After all of these years I still need my family around to make it Thanksgiving. I will still be missing my adopted Sister and her wonderful husband. It was my Mother’s favorite time of year. If you have read the other Thanksgiving posts you know all of the stories. They will all reappear to me late today as I taste my first bite of Succotash. Miss you Mother.
Well the old Blessed man has a lot to be thankful for today. Friends and Family always will top my list. And once again I will be surrounded by them all day today.
May you be as well.
The Blessed Man