What a wonderful emotion. It puts us in other people’s situations and life experiences. I got a front row seat to the best example I’ve seen in years yesterday.
If you have not figured out the blessed man has fallen into another family here in America’s Friendliest Hometown in Florida. You can never replace my Memphis family; however we have been blessed to find likeminded people here who enjoy the same things we do in many regards. We, like in Memphis, eat together almost nightly. Share in our family issues and love one another unconditionally.
One of the guys in this group is a man’s man. Great golfer, great friend, great cook I think you get my drift. He is also one of the kindest gentlest men I have ever known. He has been smitten by a wonderful woman. And I mean smitten. Like hit over the head with a brick bat smitten! He is crazy for her. And shows it through actions which we all know speak much louder than words. Well we were together for a late lunch / brunch yesterday. Being we start every meal with a blessing of the food and each other this day being a little more special as we gathered holding hands and prayed. My friend stopped us all as we were about to break and in a broken voice that you know came straight from the middle of your heart. You know the place I’m talking about that place that your kids live. The place where that first person you fell for left their name written on the wall; the place where you really are not in charge of but try to guard but never can. He asked us all to take a moment and remember his lovely companion and hold her up as best we could as this was the 20th anniversary of her first husband’s death. As I stood there watching him struggle for the words the feeling he had for her was nothing short of amazing. It was an Aha moment for me. There are times in your life when you see love. They are few and precious beyond imagination. When you see fathers hold their children for the first time. When you see mothers watch their daughters walk down the aisle to become a wife. When you see grandparents holding their grandchildren. Moments that simply take your breath away. This was such a moment. What an expression of Love. To be so in tuned with your partner that you are asking others to support her for the loss of another husband. I was blown away.
I have always loved this man. I now hold him in the highest regard. To be able to forego your love and feelings so your partner can be supported in a time of need is truly the purest form of love. I believe they call it Agape love. How proud I am to call these people my Villages Family.
Well dinner at my house tonight. Think Chuck Roast, potatoes, carrots like my granny used to cook. Everything cooked with love. Cause I know you can taste it!!!
The Blessed Man